Ten Fun Conversation Starters for Your Loved One with Dementia

With dad, there were many days when he worried non-stop. To help brighten his outlook we learned to engage in fun, light-hearted conversations that helped stimulate good memories. We carry the memories of those conversations with dad in our hearts.

Here are 10 conversation starters to encourage interaction.

1. "What was your favorite game to play as a child?"

This can bring back joyful memories of childhood and spark stories about simpler times.

2. "What’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever visited?"

Encourages reminiscing about travel, vacations, or a favorite local spot.

3. "Do you remember your favorite pet? What were they like?"

Talking about pets often evokes warm memories.

4. "What’s your favorite song or type of music?"

Music is deeply tied to memory, and discussing favorites provides a roadmap to music that can be played often (Spotify, YouTube).

5. "Did you have a favorite teacher in school? What made them special?"

A nostalgic question that often brings fond recollections.

6. "What’s the best meal you’ve ever had? Do you remember who made it?"

Food memories are vivid and can lead to detailed stories about dining experiences.

7. "What’s the funniest thing that ever happened to you?"

Lighthearted humor is always uplifting and might lead to shared laughter.

8. "What kind of hobbies or crafts did you enjoy most?"

This can reignite fondness for past hobbies like knitting, gardening, or painting

9. "What was your first job like?"

Work-related memories are often deeply ingrained and meaningful.

10. "If you could relive any day from your past, which one would it be?"

A gentle way to invite them to share a cherished memory.

When starting these conversations, be patient and encouraging. If they struggle to answer, gently prompt them with options or share your own memories to keep the conversation momentum.

Helpful Resources:

Online Resources List (free), Caregiving eBook, Fillable Care Plans

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